August 17, 2006

"When are you leaving?"

Final week at school
I gave my goodbye speech at my base school on July 28th. It was all in Japanese. I had been preparing the speech for over a month, but nothing prepared to the way I felt that day, saying goodbye to 800 students and 50 teachers, but I managed to save my tears until the end.
I received a bunch of flowers, presented by 2 student council members. It was all quite touching really. Rich actually came on this day. It was great having him there. Plus the students thought he was cute.
Later on I received letters and cards from students. A class photo that they all had signed. Some messages were; I love you Rita teacher: I will never forget you: I looked forward to your classes; You're classes were interesting;I love your cute smile.
A 3rd grade class had signed a book. Inside, one student, Rei, wrote me a little poem and part of his message was: I will try not to forget you. No, I will never never forget you.

That night was my leaving party, almost all the teachers attended, I had to give another speech. I kept it short. After other speeches, we finally ate. Or not in my case. I had person after person coming up to me to say goodbye, filled my glass with wine. Making it difficut to measure how much I actually drank. It's custom, what can you do.
Before leaving, I decided I would walk around the room saying goodbye to teachers that I hadn't spoken to yet. We had 2 hours in the hotel restaurant. 30 mins went towards speeches, and the rest flew by.
My next stop was a second party, at an Italian restaurant, with the English teachers.

Goodbyes
During my last 3 weeks in Japan, I met up with someone everyday to say goodbye. One day I met up with 3 friends. Breakfast was with Karen, and we spent some quality time talking til about 1 o'clock. Then I met up with Nobuko for sushi, we spent time together until 5pm, and then I met up with Mayumi for dinner. Mayumi says "Is there anything you would like to eat before you leave Japan?" without hesitation I said "unagi" (eel). So we had eel and rice. Delicious.
Goodbye was all getting too much. I figured I would see all the people I want to see over with and have my last week to myself.
And that just what I did.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey Rita, Sorry we missed your call the other day. We didn't have a number to reach back. I'm glad your back safely and I'm already missing you at the office. I hope you keep posting to your blog because it's the best way to find out what's going on in your life.
Take it easy...
Jay, Megumi, Lisa, and Aily Vedoya

jam_vedoya said...

OH...BTW...nice job on changing the format.

Anonymous said...

It's actually thanks to Rich that the format was finally changed. Looks better, right?